“Promise me you’ll remember, you’re braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.” – A. A. Milne, Christopher Robin.
In many hospitals that have chemotherapy wards, you’ll find a Bravery Bell. The idea is that any cancer patient that finishes their last chemo session gets to ring it, much like the bells that end a round of boxing. I’ve had the opportunity on several occasions to hear the bell ring, and each time, it brings a smile to my face and wish that I could join the systemic care team in applauding the latest patient that completed their treatment. The last time that I heard it ring though, it also made me think about so many things.
Many patients with cancer face a different type of battle – their chemo never ends. Are they any less brave than the ones who get to complete their treatment? Shouldn’t they get to ring the bell too? Others are treated with radiation – when their treatments end, they don’t have a bell to ring. How about the family members that accompany the patients to their treatments, trying not to show any outward signs of fear, even though inside they are terrified of what their loved one will go through. Trying every day to lift their spirits, trying to feel hope even when there may not be any. Aren’t they brave too?
How about the wonderful nurses that provide such diligent care to each and every patient in the Chemotherapy Centres. The nurses that quietly make sure that each and every patient is comfortable and warm and that their families are clear on what will happen. The nurses who care about patients when they are at their sickest and most vulnerable. If I could, I’d ring the Bravery Bell for them. How about the doctors, no matter what the discipline, that contact patients and family members to reassure them and answer each and every one of their questions. They too should get to ring that bell.
Cancer is the great equalizer. Whether you are rich or poor, black or white, straight or gay, male, female or transgender, it doesn’t discriminate – anyone can get it. It is unique in that the cure or the life prolonger often makes you sicker than the disease. It makes patients, families, health care providers and care givers braver than they ever thought possible.
To learn more about the Bravery Bell and the nurse who brought it to Princess Margaret Hospital, click here https://www.thestar.com/life/health_wellness/2015/09/19/for-donna-the-bravery-bell-tolls.html